Maybe someone you work with? Maybe a friend? Maybe a member of your family? Maybe the hot dog seller on the corner?Do they enjoy what they do? Now, obviously I cant know who youre thinking of, but I *can* tell you whether or not they enjoy what they do. (Ok, ...

The first thing to note is that interacting and flirting with a women takes a series of stages. The first stage is to have fun with the women and have laughs and fun. You ask things about her and show you are a good listener. Teasing and being a little cocky and funny are a great way to indicate that you are not needy and wussy. If she stuffs up in some way like dropping something , I like to say Gee you have just stuffed up your chance of a relationship with me. This indicates that you are selecting her and you are fussy and not needy.